have you ever experienced sever or painful ordeal?
Perhaps husband/wife/your child is sick who can not be cured or even die, or you got laid off, business bankcrupty, husband/wife cheating, divorce, husband doesn’t want to give a living, the disobedient wife, brother, friends or neighbours don’t want to say hello, etc..
whether you want to be patient to face the reality?
as well as still can SMILE and do GOOD to them,
and grateful to God for this fact?
if you can do like that..
means that you have done The fascinating thing.
Because Rasullullah saw. said from Suhaib ra.
“Its amazing the case of people who believe, for any business is good for him. And such things there will not except only on the mukmin, ie, if he find happiness, he is grateful, because that it is the best for him. and if he was stricken, he is patience, because that it was the best thing for him” (HR.Bukhari).
from above hadith turns it one TIPS, that is to be Human Believers.
But, what kind of believing?
That is a man who believed with 6 Pillars Faith (Faith in God, Angels, Holly Books, The Prophets, destiny, and The Eternity).
And the faith with the following:
1. Believe that Life in The World is temporary, not the real life. And the Eternity is the truth and eternal life.
(QS. Al Hadid: 20), (QS. Al Mu’minun: 112-115)
2. Believe that life in the world is a PLACE OF EXAMINATIONS (with ugliness and goodness) and will be held accountable (obligations) respectively.
(QS. Al Mulk:2), (QS. Al Anbiya: 35)
3. Believe that all that happened was written in Lauh Mahfuz.
(QS. Al Hadiid: 22-23)
4. Believe that examinations is to know our faith.
(QS. Al Ankabut:2-3)
5. Believe that in addition to the existing disaster, much more many blessing GOD has given, And we must be grateful and cautious.
6. Believe that all the good that happened are from ‘hand of God’ and the bad things that happened are from ourselves (from own lust)
QS. An Nisa: 79, QS. Al Baqarah: 216)
7. Believe that to enter heaven must be prepared to accept examinations, amount of reward depending on the size of examinations.
QS. Al Baqarah: 214
8. Believe that examinations is affection God, because heaven is obtained by Jihad (seriousness) and patience.
QS. Ali Imran: 142)
9. Believe that with examinations received will delete our sins.
10. Believe that with examinations is to get closer to God.
11. Believe that Allah give examinations according with the ability of his servant.
QS. Al Baqarah: 286
12. Believe that Allah give examinations to human like test purity gold.
13. Believe that patience, grateful, forgiving, is hidayah from Allah.
14. Believe that God’s blessing is when we sincerely.
Wallahu a’lam bi showab
tranlated from: http://kata2hikmah0fa.wordpress.com/2010/10/22/392/
